Surviving Dry January

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A woman surviving Dry January.It’s been a few weeks, but I have officially survived dry January and lived to tell the tale.

Now, let me be clear: I have never been into this trend. I have actually eye-rolled at the thought of it. That said, after my three kids and husband came down hard with the flu around Christmas, and I was stuck nursing everyone back to health with a 103 fever myself, let’s say I treated winter break like a 24/7 happy hour. When the new year rolled around, and everyone was finally on the mend and ready to return to routine, I decided that I needed to give my body a break. Enter Dry January.

I will say this, it really wasn’t that different. I personally don’t enjoy a beverage during the week because of work, but I do look forward to that Friday night you-earned-it cocktail when I finally get to sit down on the couch. Did I miss that? Sure did. But did I need that? Absolutely not. (I also discovered that a crisp Diet Coke is a suitable alternative and threw a few of those back as a treat.)

Now that I’m on the other side and have poured and enjoyed my prized prosecco, here are a few things that I learned during Dry January.

1. Not a whole lot.

Not to be funny, but it’s not all that it’s cracked up to be. It’s just a month without alcohol and not really a life-altering experience.

2. My kids are the main reason that I drink.

They are in the stage where they are either best friends or mortal enemies. There is no in between. They also err on the side of mortal enemies.

3. I didn’t have a newfound magical energy source.

I have seen so many social media posts about how not consuming alcohol for a month changed their lives, and said influencers had this new energy source. Nope, I still have kids, and I’m still tired. Please refer to my next point.

4. Starbucks should have banned me.

I’m pretty sure I replaced weekend cocktails with daily $5.42 coffee.

5. I DID sleep better.

Even though I only had a few cocktails over the course of the weekend, due to being an almost 40-year-old, I’d be sluggish no matter if it was one or four. Someone please remind me how I was able to party all night, sleep for 45 minutes, and wake up refreshed and ready for class back in 2008. I don’t think this is the same body.

6. I do not need alcohol as a reward.

There’s no need for a hard-earned week at work or being home with the kids. As nice as it is to have that first sip, it’s completely unnecessary and really just a personal luxury.

As much as I don’t need that personal luxury, for now, it is going to be my little slice of heaven on a Friday night around 6 p.m. If you have also decided to do Dry January and are sticking with it, I commend you. I am proud of you.

For me personally, it was more about sticking with something and proving that I’m strong enough not to back out. (But don’t get it twisted; I sent many texts stating that “today is the day that I break Dry January.”) Now, excuse me while I pour a glass of prosecco and put my feet up. Cheers!

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shannonianni
Shannon is a stay-at-home mom of three littles: Kennedy (2018), Brayden (2020), and Kameryn (2022) who recently went back to work after spending the last six years as a stay-at-home mom. Born and raised in Stamford, CT, she traded in her NYC suburb upbringing for the farm life, now residing on a 36-acre family farm in Monroe, CT. A self-proclaimed "hot mess mom," she seeks to find the funny side of parenting and shed light on the fact that being a parent is challenging and hilarious at the same time. You can find her on the running trail in her spare time with a single or double running stroller and a "tiny coach" or two in tow. You may even catch her chatting with her backyard chickens and Henry, the rooster.

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