I have always been an easygoing person. I have also always been an easy person to walk all over. I think the two may go hand in hand.
In a few short months, I will turn 40. Recently, I have been thinking about how many things in my life I have done because I felt I had to for other people. So many times, I have protected the peace of others while sacrificing my own.
This past year was a challenging year for my family. Only a few people fully understand what we went through and the toll it took on us. I’ve learned that I need to make more time for peace.
Here is how I plan to protect my peace.
- If I don’t want to, I’m not going to. Plain and simple.
- I am going to plan out my weeks in advance. Being prepared will bring peace of mind.
- I am going to spend time with people who fill my cup. As a full adult, why would I do anything else?
- I’m going to take my time for myself. Whether this means reading, going for walks, or simply watching TV, I won’t sacrifice my time anymore.
- I am going to stand up for myself. The few times I have done this, my situation has improved significantly.
- My nuclear family will always come first. The needs and wants of those in my home will supersede everything else.
- I will rest.